Finding purpose through pain.
However you ended up here, you're welcome. This is a gentle, faith‑centred space to grieve — with one‑to‑one and small‑group support online as you navigate loss.
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Two ways to be supported
One ministry, held gently. Pick whatever feels right for you today — both are online, and you can go at your own pace.
Pelumi
1:1 grief support
A private, tailored journey — just you and your guide, over five weekly sessions of an hour and a half, held gently and at your own pace.
Find out moreSmall group (max 10) · OnlineCherish
Group grief support
A small, intimate group — never more than ten — meeting weekly to grieve together, share safely, and build a little community of support.
Find out more“Grief is love with nowhere to go. You're not too much — you're just full of memory.”
Held by faith
Purpose in Pain is a Christian, faith‑rooted ministry where faith is woven softly through each session. You are welcome here, whatever you believe.
This ministry grew from Atinuke's own experience of loss — and from the hope she found that pain can open, not close, a story. She offers presence before solutions, so you need not walk through grief without support.
A reflection
Many men grew up believing that vulnerability was a flaw.
Many men grew up believing that vulnerability was a flaw. It isn’t. Grief is a heavy burden, but you were never meant to carry it in silence. Healing is an a…
Stay connected
Follow @purposeinpain20 on Instagram for gentle daily words — reflections on grief, faith, and hope.
Not a crisis service
Purpose in Pain offers gentle grief support — it is not an emergency or crisis service. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right away, or see urgent help.