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Grief support

Walking with you through loss

Gentle, faith-rooted bereavement support — one-to-one and in small groups, entirely online. Wherever you are in the world, and however recent or long-ago your loss, you are welcome.

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Two ways to be supported

One ministry, gently held — choose whichever meets you where you are today.

One-to-one · Online

Pelumi

1:1 grief support

£250 — the journey · £50 a session

A private journey, just for you

A private, tailored journey — just you and your guide, over five weekly sessions of an hour and a half, held gently and at your own pace.

  • A tailored, private journey — just you and your guide.
  • Five weekly sessions, an hour and a half each, on Zoom.
  • A gentle connection call first, so your guide knows your story.
  • £50 per session — £250 for the five-week journey.
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Small group (max 10) · Online

Cherish

Group grief support

Small circle · max ten

Grieve together, in a small circle

A small, intimate group — never more than ten — meeting weekly to grieve together, share safely, and build a little community of support.

  • A small group — never more than ten — so everyone can be heard.
  • Weekly sessions over six weeks, on Zoom.
  • A safe place to grieve together and build a little community.
  • New groups a few times a year — get in touch to join the next one.
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We offer presence before answers — that you would not have to carry your grief alone.

Purpose in Pain

The five-session shape

The journey, session by session

A gentle shape your guide tailors to you. Faith is woven through every session, drawn from Atinuke's own story.

  1. I

    Love & loss

    Being met where you are, and beginning to understand what grief is — and that what you feel is normal. God is present in the loss, not only after it.

  2. II

    The waves of grief

    The physical, emotional and mental responses of grief, and why it comes in waves. Lament as a faithful way to bring raw feeling to God.

  3. III

    Anger, guilt & the hard questions

    Making room for the heavier, hidden emotions and the 'why' questions — held honestly, with grace over guilt.

  4. IV

    Grief and the people around us

    Easing isolation and the strain grief puts on relationships, and building a small community of support — the heart of Cherish.

  5. V

    Adjusting, hope & purpose in the pain

    Looking gently forward without 'moving on' from the person — carrying love forward, and finding purpose and hope in the pain.

Purpose in Pain is a Christian, faith-based ministry. Faith is woven gently through every session — and everyone is welcome, whatever your beliefs.

Online booking is coming soon. For now, the gentlest first step is simply to get in touch — there's no pressure, and no obligation.

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Not a crisis service

Purpose in Pain offers gentle grief support — it is not an emergency or crisis service. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services right away, or see urgent help.