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Honouring Sorrow, Ministering Hope

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Honouring Sorrow, Ministering Hope · Each October

Leadership training

Our yearly training for church and community leaders, with Letters of Hope: gentle, practical wisdom on walking alongside people through grief.

For church and community leaders · hosted by Purpose in Pain with Letters of Hope

Next training: October 2027, dates to be announced. Let us know you are interested.

Those who lead and serve in churches and communities are often the first to notice when someone is grieving, and the most willing to help, but unsure what to say or do.

This training offers gentle, practical wisdom for walking alongside the bereaved, rooted in faith and in Purpose in Pain's years of grief support.

It is the second Honouring Sorrow, Ministering Hope training with Letters of Hope, following “Supporting the Bereaved Beyond the Funeral” in October 2025.

Church and community leaders gathered beside the Honouring Sorrow, Ministering Hope banner at the first training evening
The first Honouring Sorrow, Ministering Hope evening, with Letters of Hope.

What the training covers

  • Understanding grief

    The empty chair, anniversaries and family occasions, and what grief can look like over time.

  • Coming alongside, gently

    Practical ways to notice, reach out to and stay with grieving people in your church and community.

  • Gatherings with grief in mind

    Small changes to services, events and invitations that make room for those who are mourning.

  • Caring for yourself as you care for others

    Sustaining your own heart and faith while you hold other people's sorrow.

Ope Malomo of Letters of Hope and Pastor Dapo Badejo in conversation on stage at the inaugural Honouring Sorrow, Ministering Hope evening in October 2025
Ope Malomo and Pastor Dapo Badejo in conversation at the inaugural Honouring Sorrow, Ministering Hope evening, October 2025.

Who it's for

  • Pastors and ministers
  • Pastoral and care teams
  • Small-group and youth leaders
  • Community and charity volunteers

Anyone who supports others through loss is very welcome.

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